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Beyond Resolutions

Creating a Theme for Your Year


Oh, the new year.

If you're seeing more calendars, planners and new year’s resolutions, you're not alone. There is a big productivity industry driving all kinds of ideas your way.

Do more. Have more. Be more, And 20% off our new planner!

Planning can be fun and productivity has its place. But if you're feeling overwhelmed, I want to help. I have an alternative you might enjoy.

But first I should come clean.

A Love of Planning

Before I tell you about an alternative to planning (and a book I love), you should know something. For about ten years, I brought a planner with me everywhere.

Anyone who knew me in middle school or high school knew I loved my planner. I started simple but as the years went on I got more ambitious and the planners became more intricate. They started harmless but grew to days planned in 15-minute increments. With stickers.

Then the Palm Pilot came out and you would have thought I died and went to heaven.

In college that little stylus helped me go to a whole other level. I did yearly reviews, I had Outlook and color-coded time boxes. It was a hobby for me. I was crazy about it.

Normal people went to... the mall? I don't know. I went to office supply stores. Office Depot. Staples. Office Max. I loved them all because they had planner sections, leather bags and yearly calendars.

And then my life took a turn.

It was the summer before my senior year of college. I was living in Costa Rica and I had a wonderful host family. During the week I volunteered in the national children's hospital and in my downtime I... planned, of course. I'd been preparing for a life as a medical school student and a doctor. I'd taken the MCAT (the med school test), completed all my classes, shadowed doctors for hundreds of hours, gotten nursing and EMT certifications and volunteered... a lot. The planner was smokin' hot.

And I brought a book with me. I can't tell you where or how I found the book. But in my free time I would read it and I loved it.

It came to me at an important time and made a big influence. I loosened up, relaxed on the planning and explored new paths that led me to Peace Corps. And that changed my life forever.

The book was Goal Free Living.

A Theme for Your Year

Goal Free Living has many wonderful ideas in it and I want to share one with you today. It's called a Theme for the Year. To hear more of the wonderful ideas from the book, see my interview with the author here. Stephen is great.

The idea is simple.

Instead of new year's resolutions, choose a theme you'd like to focus on this year. It could be a word, an idea, a value, or a principle. It could be a direction you want to go, something you want to reflect on, or a feeling you want to embody during the year. I've been doing this for 12 years now and you can see my themes here.

You can keep your theme private or share it with others. I didn't share my themes for years.

You might consider putting your theme up somewhere for you to remember. Like on the fridge, in your office, or on your computer or phone background. You can use it in your passwords, put it on your planner, or carry a token with you that reminds you of your theme. It's all up to you.

Whatever you do, you dedicate yourself to exploring that theme all year and then you see where it takes you.

It seems pretty simple, and it is. But I've found it quite liberating and life-changing.

You might too.

A Little More

If you'd like more resources, you're in luck. I've made a few videos and worksheets to complement the book and my interview with the author. You can find them here.

I hope you enjoy them!

Have a great, new year!

 

Inspiration to Write and Finish

I loved an article from Nathan Barry this week,

A lot of people get to where you are now. A half finished book, an iPhone app with just a few customers, or the perfect idea that just needs circumstances to fall into place before they can build it. These people, like you, are on the brink of something great. Truly changing their own lives and careers through what they can create…

Back in high school I had friends who always had big ideas, which they talked about loudly and frequently, but nothing ever happened. Years later I’d run into them and they’d still be talking about the epic trip they are going to go on or the company they are going to start. But after years, nothing has happened. That’s not you.

As my friend Jeff Goins says, ”You can outlast those who are lucky and out-work those who are lazy.” That’s how you win.

Nathan is definitely speaking right to me. That is where I am with so many projects.

It’s easy to get half-finished, or even 99% finished, and not push all the way.

Interestingly Leo wrote a similar article on Zen Habits this week, speaking right to me too in How I Tackle a Big Writing Project.

It’s a wonderful piece and talks through, with quite a bit of humility, how Leo was able to complete an eBook in just two days. It seems amazing but really it’s not.

In my experience the actual time I spend writing is minimal usually. I think about something for 10 hours for every hour of writing I actually get done. In his case he just skipped all that middle work, which I talked about earlier this week in The Tale of The Two Writers, and just did the 10 solid hours he needed to write the book.

I love it.

I’m inspired by both Nathan and Leo and I’m eager to reconnect with my inner writer more in the coming days.

Whatever it is that you are wanting to do deep done, I hope you can reconnect with that too.

 

Icing on the Cake

My good friend Shaw has always impressed me with a habit of his that I love. Every time we go on a trip or make huge plans, he will always say the same thing: "I just want to (insert simple expectation) and anything else will just be icing on the cake." His simple expectation could be to smoke a cigar, see a lighthouse, hike up a mountain, or eat some homemade ice cream while watching LOST, but his goals are always simple, achievable and then help put everything else in perspective for me. Every time he says it I just smile and realize that that's all I really want to do too, everything else really will just be icing on the cake. I love it and we always have incredible adventures because of it! From here I out, and on every trip I take, I will always separate the cake from the icing. And believe me, it's almost all icing.

My birthday cake from the

Lynch Boys

, with my favorite sayings